February 7, 2010 – You Are So Beautiful

"What you do, the way you think, makes you beautiful." – Scott Westerfeld

I saw this quote, by author Scott Westerfeld and thought how powerful this could be if we taught our children this, forced them to believe this… especially young girls. 

It’s the absolute truth and one that often takes us quite some time to figure out.   Whether we are old or young, male or female, … appearance may be the first thing people see, but it doesn’t last too long.  Who we are, what we do, how we think… how true.  This is what truly defines beauty.

~K

February 6, 2010 – Strength Amidst Adversity

There’s a little someone I’ve had my eye on lately.  I’ve been watching carefully and I know that it’s almost time.

This little hydrangea is beginning to re-bud.  It’s been a while, but sure enough, here she goes, out in the elements, despite frosty mornings and in the face of windy afternoons.  This little lady is stronger than ever…  showcasing her resilience and unveiling new beginnings.  Each day, she unfolds a little more, - the promise of spring around the corner.

 

~K

 

February 5, 2010- After the fact

After the fact.  I am writing this after the fact.   Friday, the 5th of February, I had my computer turned off.  All day.   All weekend for that matter.

I was spending time with my husband and our children.  And  their Pop, my father.  

Believe me, I was grateful.  For good times, safe travels and for family time together.

And for that… I thought it would be fine to postpone my weekend gratitude until Monday.

~K

February 4, 2010 – Rush, rush, rush

It’s been a rush, hectic, rush, be there, you’re late, you’re almost late, it’s time, it’s past time, whew you finally made it and thank goodness it’s finally over kind of day.

Reflecting, I’m grateful for those who shared a smile with me as I went blurring past, whose patience made my day easier and whose lack of patience could have blown the top off of things.

I’m acknowledging and appreciating human understanding.  What a difference it makes and this evening, I am ever so grateful.

~K

February 3, 2010 – Oscar says…

If you don't get everything you want, think of the things you don't get that you don't want.  ~Oscar Wilde

Really.  Think about it.  Coming off (I hope) of swine flu…. think of your days.  You don’t want this.  You don’t want depression.  You don’t want divorce.   You don’t want children with pain.  You don’t want the chronic misery….

Be happy today, if for nothing else, for the things you DON”T want, that you don’t have.   If you really think about this, it will make your day better. There’s so much to be positive and thankful about.

Though I’m still recovering from a horrendous bout of the swine flu, I’m going to be grateful today for happy children, the fact that the flu did not affect my family or friends and the fact that all in my family (despite some of our negative perceptions at times) are safe and really, relatively healthy and well.

Take a moment to put things in perspective.  Usually, I find, it’s not so bad after all… Oink.  :)

~K

February 2, 2010- Good Friends & Hot Dinner

Today, I’m realizing that I’m not as strong as the swine flu.  I’m still trying to get back to normal and it’s not happening as quick as I’d like.

Having said that, no sooner can I become too worn down about that before the good eclipses this.  I am so grateful and appreciative for so many dear girlfriends who are carrying me through these rougher than usual days with their hot meals, their child care, their sweet talks… what an amazing feeling and how truly blessed I am to have them in my life.

~K

February 1, 2010 – Nuff’ Said

“If you don’t like something, change it.  If you can’t change it, change your attitude.” –Maya Angelou

Some quotes need nothing else said by me.  This woman is a genius.  Simplicity.   That doesn’t negate the fact that some things are really terrible.  Change what you can.  Change your outlook for the rest.   It’s your best option.

Oh, and by the way… February 1, 2010 marks one month of Peace of Mind 365.  Let’s take a moment to appreciate that!

~K